... such thing as the love we associate with significant others.
Now wait, hear me out. "A" is about to do a "let me put you on" post:
What was like life before the first time you felt you were "in-love?"
See, inlove is not even a word in the dictionary.
So it can't be a "thing."
Anyway I'm not even going to get into that... but the adjective...I guess?..."In-Love," is what most people consider to be love.
Big N-O.
That simply means no.
Because, then what was your life like before "love?"
Absofuckinglutely fine. Now I take this whole theory back if you were held prisoner in the basement of a relatives house as a sex slave or you got the shit beaten out of you every day of your life, simply had a bad childhood.
See the Love you receive as a child and feel as a child is pure love. A love before your mind gets tainted and marketing schemes really seep into it. Im serious yo. That's why your running around happy as shit, for no reason in those home videos. And if you were not and you were sad, well damn... I'm sorry. I'm sorry for whoever fucked it up, let it go and learn what real love is. You usually feel it for family like figures in your life. And I mean real family, which means someone you never boned before or would ever want to.
Love, besides that kind of unconditional love... is not love. It is heartbreak.
I swear to god, think of the "love" you ever had for an ex or current boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancee...
Did it grow stronger when you lost them? Did that sense of loss make you miss them and in turn yearn for them?
That is heartache my friend. And even if you've never broke up with your current partner, I'm sure you've fought and had at least an hour where you felt you lost them because of some really harsh things you did or said.
Case in point: All those bullshit emotions are unnecessary. Just remember it was not "real love." What you felt was lust or infatuation. Dopamine levels can really be a high and are very real scientifically, but they are nothing that can affect you "real" life.
Real love doesn't start until someone becomes family to you. And you create a family together. I'm serious.
-A
Monday, December 15, 2008
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20 goin on 80 heh? Why the doom and gloom? What your saying is like; why smoke if after you get high, you crash and feel like shit! Everyone has their own perception of love...and fine, I get the heartache, but thats what makes love great. What is bullshit is, all the red tape, the role playing, the lies, the egos and such. Why play the role? Like, I won't call back too soon cause they'll think im sweatin'...lol
I Don't know why people are fake. I can't relate, in my opinion you should do things on impulse in love, be them good or bad... it's what you're really feeling. Why be a programmed robot and do otherwise? I just feel its best to stop extreme emotions before hand by knowing that none of it is real.
-A
Lol @ " I won't call back too cause they'll think I'm sweatin "
Hahaha, I feel steve on that one.
Screw that.
People are addicted to the idea of love. People love being loved. Whatever "love" is. I think your opinion on "real love" comes closest to the "truth." ( I put truth in quotes because there is no such thing as absolute truth, but that is a topic for later discussion)And I must say one cannot hate on Steve for his comments/opinions because he ( I'm assuming Steve is a guy, unless otherwise stated)because he offers a different perspective, whether or not one agrees with him.
And role play? I don't play games. I think that's where people get confused, lost, hurt...
Oh well..still trying to figure it out just like the rest.
It all starts with being a friend?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtX_IWhprPk
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